Moving aboard a boat is almost always a simultaneously traumatic and liberating experience. For most people, it involves a radical down-sizing in lifestyle-related “stuff” and a significant re-engineering of the mechanics of daily living. At the same time, those necessities bring with them a simplicity that is refreshing and novel, a degree of freedom that most of us would not otherwise have willingly experienced. This tradeoff dulls much of the sting, and for folks who decide to stick with the lifestyle, it’s a net gain.
Doing it repeatedly, on the other hand, is starting to seem a little masochistic.
This spring marks the third time we have moved aboard since we started living aboard, returning from our winter gig house-sitting, and with the experience I can say this: it’s a lot easier to take all the stuff of your daily life on a boat and move it into a house than it is to take that same stuff and move it back onto the boat.
When you move to a house from a boat, you are taking a very limited amount of stuff (in typical house terms) and putting it into a very big space, where it sort of naturally spreads out and settles in the many areas available to put it. Moving from house to boat, even if you have only the same limited amount of stuff, it all gets compressed into a very small space and starts to look like an unmanageable bundle of impossible clutter.
Last year, we actually split our time much more evenly between where we were house-sitting and on the boat, and less stuff went back and forth. This year, we actually spent very little time aboard, and moving back has been much harder. I know there are places to stow all this stuff, it has been here for three years now and we have worked out fairly well how to keep it all safely and securely out of the way. I just can’t seem to remember where any of those places are! Compression seems, perversely, to have lead to expansion somehow: we were so proud to have pared life down to this limited bundle of things the first time around, and now they themselves seem to have exploded into being too much.
It doesn’t help that we are both suffering an attack of three-footitis, so every time we come across an item that just doesn’t seem to have a place to live, we find ourselves muttering, “If only we had three more feet…” It’s a common refrain, but the idea that you can simply buy your way out of storage issues on a boat is a sure sign that you don’t understand the basis of the problem: compression! Any amount of stuff, taken from a large area into a smaller area, is just going to seem like too much. A temporary reprieve might be had if we moved our stuff from a smaller boat to a larger boat, but should we go back and forth between that larger boat and a house again, the boat is inevitably going to seem to be too small. And we’ll be looking for another three feet, no doubt.